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Plan now to dine with your Valentine

Thursday, January 29, 2009

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Pesci tells how to dine out romantically on a budget

The perfect Valentine's Day dinner is all about planning. Start now, advises  Pat Pesci, head of  hotel and restaurant management program.

Pesci, who also is a dining etiquette expert and known as K-State's "Mr. Manners," has some tips on making a Valentine's Day dinner special and romantic. Valentine's Day is Saturday, Feb. 14.

"When going out to eat for such a big occasion like Valentine's Day, you want to make it extra special," Pesci said. "You need to plan ahead and form a relationship with the restaurant. This will help you receive excellent service and make the whole experience more enjoyable."

Dining choices become more limited as Valentine's Day approaches. When choosing a restaurant, Pesci suggests visiting the restaurant ahead of time, checking out the food and drink menus and getting to know the staff.

"Work very closely with the restaurant and start early," Pesci said. "Get to know the staff by name. They want to help you, and they want you to have a nice event. Choose a restaurant that has prices you can afford and food you know your date will love."

Another important aspect of a Valentine's Day dinner is wine. Pesci said that one way to impress your date is to know a favorite type of wine and have it waiting at the table when you are seated.

To create a romantic and personalized atmosphere, Pesci suggests to have flowers waiting at the table or even set out a framed picture of you and your significant other together.

"When making a dinner romantic, it's all about those little extra touches that can make your date feel special," Pesci said.

Want to impress your date at the end of the meal? Pesci suggests that you should pay the bill away from the table. He said to let the wait staff know that you will be paying the bill and for them not to bring the bill directly to the table.

"When you tell your date that the bill is already taken care of and they didn't even see you pay, it is really impressive," Pesci said. "That really adds class to an event like Valentine's Day."

Pesci also suggested calling the restaurant a few days before Valentine's Day to double-check your reservation and make sure all your requests are in order.

Thrifty - but not cheap - dining ideas

Valentine's Day can be expensive, but Pesci offers several ways to make the day special on a budget. He suggests:

  • Share your Valentine's Day with two or three other couples and have a progressive dinner. Start at one couples' house for appetizers, then move on to the next couple's house for entrees and finally end at the last couple's home for dessert. "Sharing Valentine's Day with other couples can be really fun and it cuts a tremendous amount of cost," he said. "You can still have a romantic atmosphere with minimal costs."
  • Have a pre- or post-event at your house. For example, you could start the night off with appetizers at your home then go to the restaurant for entrees. Or you could head to the restaurant first then end the night at home with dessert.

This article was posted on Thursday, January 29, 2009, and is filed under College News, Hospitality Management.